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Salmon Love and Sisterhood

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There are not many women who understand what it is like to get up and check the oil and antifreeze in three diesel engines, pull the anchor and nurse a newborn, all before 4:30 in the morning.

There are not many women who understand watching a husband pull out of a harbor at high tide with their daughters on board, reconciling their role as keeper of the radio, smokehouse and 12-gauge while their girls roll in the trough and bait hooks.  There are not many women who run a setnet site, keeping one eye on their daughter running a skiff and one eye on the bear ambling towards the bunkhouse. There are not many women who can barely see through their tears as their recently deceased father’s boat is lowered into the water and still climb on board to take the controls and keep the family Bristol Bay tradition going strong.

Lexi Fish with her daughter Isla, on the back deck of their boat

There is no manual for how to raise a family, be a wife, be a captain and hold down the fort in the most remote places in the world. In my life, the only guide I have had for how to live in these crazy salmon days are a group of women who have lived it before me.

These women (of whom I am one) spend their summers in all different parts of Alaska, chasing, catching, smoking, freezing and feasting on salmon that are ocean-bright and headed upstream. It takes long winters of preparation to make sure the bunkhouses windows are replaced, the John Deere aftercoolers are cleaned, the canning supplies are crated up for the ferry trip, the nets are rehung and the new running lines are designed correctly. As spring approaches, as salmon once again run back towards shore and the preparations ramp up, tensions are high and patience runs short. As women, we sort our roles amidst the chaos and anticipation. Are we provider? Mother? Protector of children? Brave and impervious captain? Mechanic?  Cook?  Patient wife? Helper? Wielder of crescent wrench or reader of bedtime stories?

There is no manual for how to raise a family, be a wife, be a captain and hold down the fort in the most remote places in the world. In my life, the only guide I have had for how to live in these crazy salmon days are a group of women who have lived it before me. They are my mentors and my examples. Summer months are so busy that our only connection is a chance envelope arriving from a tender postmarked from False Pass with a hastily written update on how the salmon run is shaping up and how many bears have to be scared off every day. Sometimes there is a short call on a satellite phone, asking how to drain a fuel filter or if anyone knows of an extra crewmember. Our real times are in the winter, over long dinners, cold skis and warm cups of coffee. Stories are told, questions are asked; we marvel at each other. We learn how these wise women have maintained their relationships, managed their anxiety, and fixed their deck winches. How did they take care of two young babies and have successful seasons?

We are not out there proving that we can do it; we are there because we love to do it, we need to do it and we don’t know what summer would look like without a tide book, mending needle and fillet knife.

Dinner with the Salmon Sisters

Salmon Sisters with their mom

This community of salmon sisters is far from a girl-power, she-ra, watch-us-roar sort of group.  Our egos are sufficiently tempered by our experience, failures and the knowledge of what we give up as we take the wheel and hand the baby to a nanny. We are not out there proving that we can do it; we are there because we love to do it, we need to do it and we don’t know what summer would look like without a tide book, mending needle and fillet knife.

Two of these girls in our community started a business called the Salmon Sisters, and it has deep personal connection for those of us that know them.  When I wear their sweatshirts, it reminds me of this close group of women that are essential to my survival as I navigate motherhood, marriage, snags and engine rooms.  They are salmon sisters, salmon mothers, salmon aunts and salmon daughters.  I can’t wait for our next winter meal.

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Megan Spurkland

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